As I worked with my writing coach, he helped me to double check the "arc of the story" of Adopting Grace: A Parenting Journey from Fear to Freedom. I imagine that it is a challenge for all writers to see the bigger picture on their own projects. The coaching process and a set of more objective eyes led to one perfectly good chapter getting the heave ho.
Read MorePart of the story in Adopting Grace is how Mark and I have negotiated, struggled, and loved each other through difficult and challenging times. These days, he does a lot more cooking, shopping, and carpooling than he did in our earlier days of parenting together.
Read MoreOne of the moms offered me well wishes as I was about to share my book. Another mom of grown children said, "oh, is tomorrow the day?" My reply was, "yes, if I press send..." Then she offered beautiful words of blessing. "You were born to do this."
Read MoreWe recently sold our 2005 mini-van. It is the vehicle that our youngest child first travelled in after we touched down at the end of a twenty-four hour adoption journey from China. It was the third in a twenty-five plus year string of Wilson mini-vans.
Read MoreAs I wandered home and returned to my backyard, my next door neighbor called over the fence, "How are you?" "Better now," I responded. I told her I was doing final edits on the story of my daughter falling from the magnolia tree - this story is one familiar to our closest neighbors. No explanation was needed. "I can talk sometime if you need to" she shot back over the fence. "Thank you, but some things need to be done alone." We nodded our heads and hearts. As mom, we each knew what this meant.
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